Freedom and love are inseparable. We long for love to liberate us, yet we use it to hide. It has the power to reveal but also to deceive, to awaken but also to lull us into comfort. It can make us feel seen, yet just as easily cloud our vision.
In my roles as a therapist and BIPOC woman navigating life's complexities, I have come face to face with what can only be described as the formidable "Great Wall of Midlife."
The truth, rather than setting us free, often burdens the present with the weight of history’s debts. It doesn’t release us from the past, but if your spirit can endure both its raw harshness and beauty, it grants you a strength that transcends mere survival.
In therapy, bridging the mind and spirit—exploring the intersection of adult development, psychological maturity, and spirituality—can offer profound insights. It can help individuals not only understand their current spiritual beliefs but also recognize the potential for growth and transformation, leading to a more integrated and authentic self.
When it comes to love and relationships, Aristotle's timeless wisdom is relevant today, particularly in the context of couples therapy.